Worst Break Up Song “Need You Now” By Lady Antebellum
Lets face it breaking up sucks. If you have ever heard the song “Need You Now” by Lady Antebellum (if you haven’t make a point of checking it out, it’s a great song) you may have sympathized with the characters in the song who are going through a break up and doing things all wrong.
Here are the words in one line of the song: “It’s a quarter after one, I’m all alone and I need you now. Said I wouldn’t call but I lost all control and I need you now.” Don’t be desperate and start dialing.
Here is another line: “It’s a quarter after one, I’m a little drunk and I need you now.” Drunk dialing is even worse. The other mistake that is often made is texting the ex, and texting and more texting. You become what is called a Text Terrorist. That will not work either.
So what is the right thing to do to get back with your ex?
First ask yourself a very personal question, and be open minded about it. Do I really want him or her back? Make sure there is a real and true love there, and that you are not just reacting to the situation.
Yes, I want my ex back! If that was your answer there is a process to follow.
Make SUre You Do Not Do What Is Expected
Being predictable is the last the last thing you want to be at a this time. You want to keep your ex guessing and working to worm his or her way back into your good graces. Keep them on their toes and he’ll keep coming back for more.
How do you avoid doing something that is expected? Break out of that day to day thing you do. Now is the time to spice things up and add some different, fun and fresh activities to your days.
Make Sure You Have Relationship Goals
Even if you are separated goals can still be set. When you are trying to get your ex back, the goals are a vital part of the process. Goals should be set for different degrees of closeness and affection between the two of you and then achieving those goals is key.
Here is a list of goals you will want to consider: reaching emotional milestones, making physical changes and being able to control your temper to start with. It will be up to you to choose the type of goals that pertain to your relationship.
Take Responsibility and Hold Yourself Accountable For Successes and Failures
Accountability, lately seems to be in short supply. Hold yourself accountable for failing to meet goals. As well as rewarding yourself when goals have been triumphantly met.
Reward and punishment are great motivators. Use them well. Some rewards you might consider are new hair styles, new video games, or even a night on the town with friends. Be sure that you’re doing things to encourage an active lifestyle whenever possible. You don’t want to exacerbate existing problems by creating potential health problems along the way.
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